Sunday 29 May 2011

How To Make Him Want You: Tips To Date Your High School Crush

It was the matter of many long years. You developed an intense crush on your senior. At that time life seemed so easy and you felt that both of you were born to be together. However, sadly enough time fled and both of you went away on your own path. Has time brought you back face to face again?

Are you meeting him once again after so many years? Do not feel nervous, just follow the easy steps, reinvent the love, and tie him to yourself. Turning the crush in to a mutual love is all very easy. What it takes is a bit of seriousness. Move ahead with full confidence to win him over. When you are planning to attract the handsome man, you will have to be very specific about a few things in particular and thereby gain that much-needed attention and will manage to bag a date with him easily.

There are times when you really believe in something however cannot make that happen. Do not consider dating the handsome man as one of them. It is all about doing things the right way so just follow the steps and make him fall for you very fast. The process will rather be quite easy for you as you are planning to fix it up with someone known compared to doing the same with someone unknown. The major problems tend to diffuse and sink in when you are fixing your attention on your long time crush.
Bring back the memories

When you two have decided to meet again, it is better to forget the world and plunge into that sea of memories. What is so important and unique between the both of you is that you two have spent the best years of your life together.  Try to reinvent the past giving close attention to details and thereby make sure that the date sets an example of the past and is the new beginning to mark the better tomorrow.

Work on both of your likes, dislikes very carefully, and try to focus on these areas genuinely. When you are looking forward to woo that handsome guy and expect a date with him. What you require is to be able to bring out the best in you. You will have to bring that perfect side of yours out to be able to attract the eyes of the handsome man.

To be clean and attractive yourself is very important to be able even to catch his eyes. A handsome boy means he takes good care of himself. You will have to be up to the mark yourself to be able even to make his attention fall on you. You will have to smell good and even look good at the same time to make him fall for you.
Concentrate on the details

When you both have finally decided to go out, make the entire thing very special. Let the whole feeling be memorable enough for both of you to remember it throughout. Select an old place where both of you actually loved going. The idea is to go out on a date, so it does not mean that you will have to go out to some expensive place and all.

Make it simple, and just go for a walk on your favorite road and just enjoy the moments with a simple ice cream and conversation. Doing what both of you love to do is what really matters more than anything else does.  Try to recheck all the details about yourself repeatedly, you must smell good and have no such flaws in any way. There is no place to go wrong as you are considering, attracting a handsome male whom you have been acquainted with for years.

You will have to be very neat and clean, you will have to work is such a way that you are careful enough about your looks and about your attires also at the same time.  You will have to be very steady and up to date in all ways just to be extra sure that he completely gets attracted to you. You will have to be extremely prepared physically and mentally when you are planning to date a handsome man.
Do not act too childish

All of us tend to have a block inside our mind whenever we go out with known people. This is even true when you are setting out with your high school crush. Do not keep the feelings of the school at the conscious level. Those days are past today, both of you have actually moved a lot ahead and grown up to be mature individuals.

Being too childish and only sharing the moments that you have spent during those early days will not make you proceed ahead with time. You will not be able to move onto the future too proudly. Keep aside those little doubts and hold them only as sweet memories rather than a hindrance. When you have already taken care of the looks try to put forward all your concentration on the manners. You will have to be sure of how you speak and how you behave at the same time.

Being particular about the manners and what you speak is very important thus to be able to handle your date with your crush whom you have been waiting to be with all this while. You will have to be very well read as well, because you are considering a handsome yet bold man. Who is supposedly very up to date and different from all other boys.

When he/she was your high school crush then time was very different and you have by now crossed that stage and moved on with your respective lives. Try to bridge this gap of years between both of you. Build up a castle in a new way by cementing the little bits from all these years. Try to know each other once more and explore the unknown self-better. Take an effort to keep the past and move along with it towards a beautiful and promising future.